(Closed) Two BFF’s fighting over MOH?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1813 posts
Buzzing bee

you can order them however you see fit   You can also have 2 MOHs, then just have your little sister stand closest to you    I have 2 (biological) sisters, so I made one maid of honor and one matron of honor, however, my program didn’t specify, it just simply said “attendants” and listed them in order…of course I was 29 when I got married and so it didn’t seem as important as it did when I remember at your age speculating who would be in my party…mine changed DRASTICALLY by the time I finally got married

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh, I just posted about my similar situation on another thread! 

Yep, I have two best girlfriends fighting over it. Only difference is one is outright being passive-agressive and picky about it while the other is being supportive and kind. 

Guess who just lost her Maid/Matron of Honor rights? I can’t figure out how I’ll tell her though. Let me know if you figure out a good way and good luck… it’s a really sticky spot to be in! 

One thing that might work for you… you can make a co-MOH. I was going to, but I thinK Future Sister-In-Law had also hoped she might be Maid/Matron of Honor. So then I felt like I’d be letting down yet another person. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I would make the one you think would be the best person to help you with planning and calm you down day of your Maid/Matron of Honor.  That’s what’s really important.  As for the shorter to taller thing, I’m not doing it that way (I don’t think!).  I have 3 short BM’s and 3 tall BM’s, so I think I’m going to alternate their heights, or something, haven’t decided yet, but I don’t think you have to put them in order that way. Put them in whatever order YOU want!

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