- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
So semi rant,
I have been friends with the same group of people since about grade 6/7. I’ve been friends with them for more than half my life.
So tonight my friends are have a NYE party, I had planned on going. I’ve been having some serious health problems for the last year and I’m going for a very not-going-to-be-fun test in a few days. I also deal with PTSD, which is centered around specific medical contexts… this procedure falls under things that are going to trigger me and likely cause inordinate anxiety.
I thought I would be okay to go to this get together. As this test comes closer I’m getting more and more stressed out. I’m having nightmares and flashbacks. So I decided to stay in and just deal with the stress at home and focus on relaxing.
I contacted my friend hosting the get together and explained what’s going on. She’s very understanding as her wife has gone through a lot of similar stress and tests this year.
I told my other friend the other night that I wouldn’t be going. She was all understanding at the time. I didn’t give her the illicit details as she isn’t someone who keeps private things private, but I did give her a run down.
So today she sends me a message:
well it sucks to be you tonight i’m going to 2 partys and yer staying innnnnnnn
-_-. Thanks Cpt Supportive.
Aside from that. my other friend from the same group started taking bitchy shots at me since she got married. About everything. Last time we got together she went off on me over radio stations. Literally. I can’t talk about anything without her getting rude about it. When I was newly engaged, I showed my friends my ring. She looks at it and says “diamonds are stupid”. There are many more examples of her just being randomly bitchy/rude/weird like this.
I guess I’m wondering what the heck the deal is? Why is everyone acting like such a jerk?
Also, semi rant over.