- 10 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My fiance’s brother just announced his engagement to his new girlfriend of 6 months. His brother and I have been together for 10 yrs, we got engaged over a year ago. We had some financial stuff to handle before we set out date. In the meantime his other brother (taking about brother #2 now) got engaged and their wedding is this coming November out of state. We decided to start planning our wedding and decided, but haven’t announced our date to the whole family – Sept. 1st 2011. Brother #1 just posted on Facebook that he is engaged (most of the family has not met his fiance) to this new girlfriend. I posted something to the effect to stay away from Sept. 2011 and he emails me telling me that they had already set their date which is Sept. 22nd 2011. Should i be slightly upset? Do you think I should change my date to accommodate his engagement to “this girl” that no body knows? He’s a drama king, so I want to avoid confontation, but I can’t help but think it’s insensitive of him to know someone for 6 months, get engaged and plan a wedding so quickly knowing that his brother and I were next in line? Give me your honest opinions please. Thanks!!