Post # 1
I wanted to have my best male friend be my Maid/Matron of Honor, but also wanted to ask a good girl friend of mine to also be my Maid/Matron of Honor. I told my Male friend he would be my Maid/Matron of Honor when i got married, but im not sure if i should ask him if he minds sharing the title Maid/Matron of Honor with another person? I wanted to take them out individually to dinner or something somewhat private and ask them to make it special and maybe a little gift. Another dilemma on that one- my male friends new fiancee dosen’t really like me all that much so i dont think i can do the private dinner thing any ideas on how to ask him? my wedding isnt for another year and a half.
Post # 3
Man of Honour and Maid of Honour. No problem. Love it, actually. But if your friend’s fiancee dislikes you so much (and is so controlling) that she won’t even allow him to go to dinner with you, prepare for her to completely flip out at the notion of his being your MoH. He may end up being forced to decline by her.
Post # 4
@geekspice: we ( male friend and i) had talked about being each others Maid/Matron of Honor years ago, we’ve known each other for over 13 years and she is failry new and we talk about in in front of her all the time – she says “i can not change what you do in her wedding but i sure as hell can change what she does in mine” so yeah im kinda suck on this one – i dont want to ask him via text message or anything like that :/ but everyone works two jobs it would be quite hard to acutally get to gether
(good thing i have almost 2years )