(Closed) Two MOHs?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I have two MOHs or one?

    have a Matron of Honor & a maid of Honor

    just have one MOH

  • Post # 3
    1320 posts
    Bumble bee

    @GoldStar:  Are you as close to your other three BMs as your potential MOH? If not, then they likely won’t think twice about it. Plus, your best friend will likely be the “working” Maid/Matron of Honor (the one who does more of the heavy-lifting) and your sister will likely be the “honorary” Maid/Matron of Honor.

    I have two sisters. So, I am having two MOHS. I was also in another wedding where the bride did this. No one batted an eyelash, and no drama/discord ensued.

    Post # 4
    2002 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

    @GoldStar:  A lot of brides do this. I think it would be strange if you had a Maid of Honor, Matron of Honor, and only 1 bridesmaid (how would she feel?), but seeing that you have 3 other bridesmaids, I don’t think it is so odd.

    Post # 5
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @GoldStar:  I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man in a five-member bridal party with two Maid/Matron of Honor. I wasn’t offended at all.

    Post # 7
    564 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @GoldStar:  I’m in a similar situation. My sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor, but she’s just gone through a messy divorce, so she hasn’t been very involved in my wedding planning. My best friend has been there through everything–and she has been SUPER helpful and supportive. Luckily, she’s married, so my sister will be Maid/Matron of Honor, my friend will be Matron of Honor. I think it solves the problem without upsetting anyone. 

    Post # 8
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @GoldStar:  Oh! I should have added that the two Maid/Matron of Honor were the sister and the best friend, which was completely understandable. Zero hard feelings. I was just honored that she asked me to stand up for her!

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