(Closed) Two months left and he still hasnt asked

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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652 posts
Busy bee

@thatredheadedsister:  Funny enough, my Fiance asked his friends before we even got engaged! lol

Yeah, it was kinda weird. I was like, wait hold on, where’s the ring?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Fiance needs to get on the ball….it’s way late in the game and by asking them this late, he will put more of a burden on them since they have to scramble in getting tux rentals/attire, travel, get days off of work. Our wedding is the week before yours and all our guys have to be fitted no later than mid-April; we are also facing the prom rush during that time too….

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Wait… He doesn’t want to burden them with standing up, but he wants the sides to be even?

I think he needs to pick one or the other!

Post # 6
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341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

give him a deadline to do it, and if he still hasn’t, do it yourself. I think he would much prefer to do it than to have you do it.

Post # 7
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1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

Your groomsmen may have to pay rush-delivery fees for their suits/tuxes because of how long your Fiance has waited. He needs to just ask or not have anyone.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@missmorganista:  This. They may say no this late in the game, especially if they have to wear what everyone else is and have to have their tuxes rushed or something.

Post # 9
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

He just needs to get off his bum and ask them! It’s way to late now, just bug him every day until he does it.

My Fiance proposed to his groomsmen! Haha, it sounds a bit weird but they are all so close and with their personalities it really wasn’t weird at all. He just knelt down and said ‘Will you be my groomsman?’

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

My Fiance asked one via a phone call and his best man via FB msg. He is in the navy so he doesnt see them often.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

By waiting so late he may well have set them up for financial burden.  Rush orders, needing time off work, etc.  He hasn’t done them any favors, he has done them quite a disservice.

Explain to him the financial burden he may have created.  I do think if there are rush orders or financial issues your Fiance should offer to help with those since he created them.

 

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