(Closed) Two Months Out and My Give-a-Damn’s Busted

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

{{Hugs}} I’m sorry you’re going through this. You’ve got a lot going on and it seems, please correct  me if I’m wrong, that you’re pretty much diong it alone. You need some alone time with your Fiance where you can reconnect and just be with each other.

Take some time out of your day and pray about it. Just tell God how you’re feeling and he’ll make it better. I’m sorry I can’t offer more advice, but I hope this helps some. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh the drudergy of a funk! I feel for you sister, we all get BLAH from time to time , where we question our life, our ambitions, our desires, our purposes and so on. 

I think there is a lot going on in your world and hidden stresses. It seems like all this marriage is crescendoing into living together and you don’t have a place, you feel discombobulated since your college stuff isn’t even situated! It doesn’t help that your intimacy level is down, and finding an answer to why appears hopeless, so you’ve given up wanting it.

Its probably difficult for you man to be involved and enthused because of his amazing load of work hours every week- yikes! Is that a forever thing?

So tell me about his proposal or how you came to be planning a wedding πŸ™‚ I’d love to hear, sorry If you have posted it elsewhere, I’m rather new.

Post # 5
2259 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I do agree with the other bees here…. it may be due to stress! I am in the same boat actually and it pretty much stinks πŸ™ I am sorry ((( HUGS )))) Take time to be with your wonderful fiance…. go on dates…. surprise him with something if you want…. when this happens to me I just try to focus on how much I adore this man! πŸ™‚ It usually helps me feel excited about marrying him and planning the wedding even when I am overwhelmed. Just try to do things you love to do… even if you don’t feel like it. There’s nothing like a horrible slump of depression to steal your joy! Hugs and best wishes that you become excited soon. ~Pumpkin

Post # 7
7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ah Molly, loved your proposal! Your man seems so sweet and sincere, plus well thought out πŸ™‚ It’s great you guys have time on your side, and have been through the ups and downs of life, plus will continue to have each other for the future.

Getting married makes soo much since but its like once you acutally do it, its like holy Shiz! Lots to do, and life never slows down to help out lol

Great to hear about the workload becoming more manageable, but as a side note, I am incredibly admirable towards him, working three jobs says a lot about his character!

Everything is going to work out! Enjoy this sweet time as much as possible and don’t be afraid to cry or want to rip your hair out πŸ˜‰ It’s all part of the process and a good teaser towards the future ebb and flow of things.

Post # 9
5988 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

*hugs* oh honey i think you both need some quite time together sans wedding talk and just have some fun – when was the last time you two went out and relaxed and laughed???   go out for a picnic or a walk, visit a museum or blow bubbles in the park, something silly! i wish i had the magic answer but try to remind yourself of the positives in your life

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