(Closed) Two showers – do I invite all bridesmaids to both?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do I invite all my bridesmaids to both bridal showers?
    Yes : (9 votes)
    90 %
    No, just invite them to one : (1 votes)
    10 %
    No, split them between showers : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I am like you in that I’ll most likely be having multiple showers. I think I’ll just invite them to each shower, and let them know that I in no way expect them to be at both, but I want to make it easier for them to attend whichever fits their schedule best. As long as you make it clear that they don’t have to attend both (or even that they should feel like they need to attend both), inviting them to both seems to be the nicest option, IMO.

    Post # 4
    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I agree with NDBee. They’re all invited, but BY NO MEANS to I expect them to be at all of them! I’ll also try to make sure that they know I really don’t expect them to be there and that I’m not just saying it to be nice. 🙂

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