- 1 year ago
- Wedding: June 2015
Honestly, I’ve only ever seen people get so worked up about ‘vow renewals’ and ‘second ceremonies’ on sites like weddingbee, theknot, etc. I grew up with many international friends, and lots of them had to have more than one ceremony for multiple reasons (needed to do a small one in a country far away because grandma couldn’t travel and then a bigger one with friends, needed to do multiple ones in different countries because relatives in each place could not afford to travel at all, needed to have a quick ceremony for visa purposes and then a bigger one later when they could afford it, etc. etc.). I didn’t even know that I was supposed to have been offended at having been invited to a party that was one of many until I started planning my own wedding and read about it on here!
My advice is to do what you planned, and feel however you would have felt about it before you knew to feel differently.