(Closed) Two weddings?

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
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  • Post # 3
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    Can you move in with him a month early but save the wedding for April?

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    It depends on what your circle would think.

    Personally, in my circle, it wouldn’t matter to them if we did it a month ahead or 6 months ahead and then celebrated at a later time.

     

    Post # 6
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    @BrightYellowGaloshes: I wondered, since it seemed like an obvious suggestion 😉

    I think if it were a longer period of time, like six months or a year, it would be one thing, but a month is realistically a very short time (at least from a guest perspective).

    I would hold off, if I were you – afterall, you’ve already budgeted and planned for the extra month, and getting married now would mean rushing to move, pack, transition, everything.

    Post # 7
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    that’s what I’m doing! I’m married already, and the “public” ceremony will be this august.

    but we got married early for insurance reasons, and we’ll have been married for about 10 months by the time the ceremony comes around.

    we’re going to work with our officiant so that the wording of the ceremony is just right. for example, he won’t say “I pronounce you man and wife” because that wouldn’t necessarily be true.

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Personally? I’d just wait–it’s not that much longer!

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