- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2012
Posted this in the Nov Babies board but wanted to post here to get more opinions and add a poll. =)
I live in LA and got invited to a wedding in NYC on June 1. It is an old college friend and it will be a big reunion with lots of partying.
I also got invited to a wedding in SF on June 2. It is for a work friend and she told me about her wedding first so I had already made some preliminary plans to go since I have family there that I can stay with.
So pre-BFP, I was planning to go to both. I would take like a 9am flight out of NYC on the 2nd, arrive in SFO around noonish, nap, and then go to the second wedding that starts at 7pm. Stay in SF for a few days, and then fly back home and go back to work.
I will be about 15 weeks in June. Is this crazy??? My friend who is 36 weeks thinks I’ll just be too exhausted and shouldn’t risk it since it’s just barely past the first trimester. And I have no idea what kind of symptoms I’ll be having, not to mention I won’t be ready to reveal the pregnancy quite yet but the NYC people will suspect something if I’m not drinking or at least dancing the night away. The SF people won’t know the difference because they are co-workers and I’ve never really partied in front of them before.
My friend who is not pregnant ans never has been, says I need to suck it up and just go to NYC because it’s going to be a blast.
What would you guys do? Go to both?
If I just go to one, which one? The NYC one that is far ($$$$) but with college friends that I haven’t seen in forever? Or the SF one that is close, pretty cheap, and with co-workers who I love and see all the time but are not as close to?