(Closed) Typical standard price for a wedding gift?

posted 5 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Stanard price for a wedding gift?
    $0-$10 : (0 votes)
    $10-$20 : (0 votes)
    $20-$40 : (1 votes)
    2 %
    $40-$50 : (9 votes)
    14 %
    $50- $100 : (37 votes)
    56 %
    $100- above : (15 votes)
    23 %
    $200- above : (4 votes)
    6 %
    Wedding card : (0 votes)
    I'm attending your wedding, that should be enough : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    1548 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    For weddings we usually give about 200-300 as a couple. For showers I spend $75-100. 

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    8579 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Well, guests are never required to give a gift, although most guests do.

    I think it really depends on how close you are to the couple. Immediate family tend to give more.. where as you might only get a card or a small amount of money from your second cousins.

     

    Post # 5
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    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    It depends on who the couple is and how close we are, but usually $150-$250. Nothing ever less than $150, expecially if both my fiance and I are attending. Bridal showers: up to $75.

     

    Post # 7
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    258 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Are we talking shower gift or wedding gift?

    Post # 10
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    2058 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    At least $100 per person (so $200 from me & FI) for someone we are not close to. $150-$200 per person for close family & friends. 

     

    ETA: A lot of the weddings we go to are in the Northeast which tend to gift higher amounts.

    Post # 11
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    951 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I depends where you’re from. In the south, where I’m from, the average is around $50 and people prefer to give you actual gifts, as cash or gift cards are seen as impersonal. In northeast, from what I can tell, the minimum is $100 per person attending, more if you know the couple better. Most people here also prefer cash.

    Post # 12
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    2604 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @echolove:  Whatever fits into the giver’s budget and whatever they choose to spend. 

     

    Post # 13
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    1846 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I think you need more options in your poll above $50.

    For weddings we give a minimum of $200 as a couple for a casual friend. For family likely $300-$400 depending on how close we are. If our son is invited, I usually add on an additional $50. 

    For showers I typically spend $50-$100 depending on how close I am to the person. 

     

    Post # 14
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    8695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    We give mostly cash in my area and the average is about $250 per couple.

    Post # 15
    Member
    548 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    My general rule for myself is gift for the shower, cash for the wedding. I spend $50+ for a shower gift, but it depends on my relationship with the bride. For the wedding, I give $100 (so $200 from Fiance and me), but again, that depends on the relationship with the bride/groom. It may be more if we’re closer to them. I’d say you should change the poll choices, but a lot of us have already voted $51 and above, so it probably wouldn’t be all that accurate if you changed it at this point.

     

    Post # 16
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    9578 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I would probably say $50-75+ is a good amount to start with at least.  I would go higher in a lot of instances.  I could also make exceptions for younger people, i.e. 19-20 year old college students.  I wouldn’t think they would be expected to drop hundreds.

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