- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So last night was his batchelor party.
I have known for months they were going to a strip club and I sucked it up because we have been to strip clubs together (though I hate the thought of him going alone).
I told him not to get a lap dance because just because you are paying for it doesnt make it not cheating.
Well he got one. He came home and told me that the boys pushed him into a “private dance” which turned out to be another name for a lap dance (“no I cant get a lap dance Natalie will be angry” “its not really a lap dance – she stands in front of you” “oh, ok then”) I said that sounds a lot like a lap dance to me and he said “I guess most people would call it that”.
Now all day he has been in the bed room “hung over”… its 6pm here, I know he is avoiding me because he was an a-hole.
I am really disappointed and angy, if I had not of asked him not to do it I agree it would be my own fault, but I specifically asked him not to.
I really feel betrayed and hurt and I just need to vent.
I feel like sh|t.