(Closed) Ugggh Batchelor Party – Need to vent.

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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1652 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I’m sorry you are feeling so hurt.  🙁  I have really mixed feelings on strip clubs and lap dances, which I won’t go into here.  What I think is important here is that you specifically told him what kind of behavior or activity you are not comfortable with, and he still did it.  So I think you just need to have a frank (and CALM) discussion with him where you tell him that you are hurt.

On the bright side, he told you what happened.  He could have hidden it and lied to you, and apparently he didn’t.  So I think that counts for something.

I hope it all works out when you guys talk.

Post # 4
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ugh, that’s crap that he let himself be ‘pushed’ into that. I think blaming peer pressure is a bit of a weak argument. I don’t think it’s worth ending your engagement over but I’d definitely let him know that doing things like this causes massive trust issues.

Post # 5
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I would be mad too. You asked him not to and he did it anyway. That’s disrespectful. 

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