(Closed) uggh… Bachelor/Bacelorette party

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1112 posts
Bumble bee

Sad. 🙁 I’m sorry you’re going through all this, but alas, c’est la vie…

Maybe talk to your other bridesmaids or your mother about helping you plan something? I know it’s against “etiquette” to be involved in your own showers and parties, but when your Maid/Matron of Honor quits…uh, I think that gives you a pretty darn good excuse to be involved. Hahaha.

Instead of a regular bachelorette party, you could now consider a spa getaway or a cabin retreat with your ladies, or something like that.

I hope you get it all worked out! Best of luck. xo

Post # 4
477 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MrsUNClover:  Just a thought, and you and your Fiance may not be comfortable with this, and that’s ok, but what about combining parties? 

That’s what Fiance and I are doing.  We’re renting a party bus and going out bar hopping with all of our friends, after an excellent dinner at a reasonably nice and fun restaraunt that is.  It just made sense for us since over the course of our relationship his friends have become my friends and mine have become his.  And many of his male friends live out of town, so he probably wouldn’t have much of a party, and all of my friends are men so mine wouldn’t be traditional anyway.  Maybe in light of things your Fiance would be open to having you and your friends join him and his for one big, fun, pre-wedding night out. 

Post # 5
9114 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

What’s so exciting about getting hung over, rubbed up on by strippers and getting lots and lots of dildos and sex toys?

You can always throw your own bridal shower if you want one that terribly. No one is going to look down on you for it, and frankly, no one has to know.

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