(Closed) Ugh !

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1368 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

well, I know what you mean, far too well… :O

We as waiting bees have been there or still there at one point in the waiting period…

Post # 6
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64 posts
Worker bee

Oh the Joys of Waiting!  Yeah, we’re all in the same boat.  Most likely he wants to surprise you!  Also, be aware that you have no control over when he will ask you unless you give him a timeline or ultimatum.  It really sucks… You could ask him though.  I toyed with the idea and he shot me down, basically telling me that it’s the “man’s job” to ask.  :/ Sorry I’m not more help.  But I SO feel your frustration 😀

Post # 4
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290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I know how you feel. You want certainty it will happen. Just tell him that you just want reassurance that you guys are going in th same direction/path and that if he has any doubts or questions to talk to you. That this is a joint effort between the TWO OF YOU.

Good luck!

Post # 5
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4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

… perhaps because he wants to surprise you. Often that’s the mans intention.

Post # 7
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273 posts
Helper bee

I am a bit confused as to what you want him to say. You mentioned that you JUST started thinking about marriage and explained you wanted to get married in the next two years. Why do you keep pushing the topic? It’s not like he is going to tell you the exact date he is going to propose!! He hears you, and it doesn’t seem like he is against it in anyway…you just need to trust that it will happen and give him some space,,, the more you push the more pressure he will feel and it may turn into some bigger issue than it really needs to be.

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