(Closed) Ugh – Break down heading my way!!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Nooooo! What’s wrong?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m really sorry!  What can we do to help? 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kelsikay:  Breathe. Whatever is contributing to this can wait until tomorrow or later in the week. Don’t have a breakdown! ((Hugs)) 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kelsikay:  I am a date twin and I TOTALLY GET IT! My family sucks–my mom has done nothing, hasn’t even asked. She doesn’t have a dress or shoes or anything…so I’ll have to pay for it and go with her to pick it out. My bridesmaids took forever to buy their dresses so i had to change them 2x and the same with the shoes. The cake…well, let’s just hope it turns out well. If not, I’ll be so utterly pissed. The decor..all me and I suck at anything creative! ๐Ÿ™ 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Wow, you definitely have a lot going on!  I’m so sorry that you’re so overwhelmed…did it help to vent a bit?  Maybe not in any real way, but it always feel cathartic to me.

 

Now, just take a few deep breaths.  Eat some chocolate.  Take some time for just you- get a manicure or go to a movie.  And don’t think about the wedding!  Just for a little bit.  I can’t imagine how stressed you must be right now.  But it will be OK!  You will get married and the only people who matter are you and your Fiance.  

You have every right to be pissed off and stressed.  It sucks your family doesn’t seem excited!  But know that you have a wonderful Fiance (and it sounds like a great Mother-In-Law and FIL!) who will help you through this and be there for you no matter what!  

 

 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kelsikay:  I have probabky received 1/4 of our RSVPs and we are are date twins. No one is making hotel reservations and the block ended today. We have our wedding website address (that includes info) on our invites and no one is even looking at it

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Kelsikay:    Hugs!!!  You’re right, sometimes our “blood” family can really suck – mine does, too, at times.  I didn’t even invite all of them to my wedding, lol.  I wanted to be happy  on that day, so anyone negative towards me did not receive an invitation!

Hang in there!  I’m glad you’re focusing on the positive and that you’re marrying the love of your life.  He is your family now.  We can’t choose the family we’re born into, but we can choose how to live our lives when we’re finally away from them.  ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kelsikay:  WEll, I don’t have much done in the way of decor. I purchased pintuck charcoal runners, vases, and ribbon. I’ve also ordered the material for the ceremony area and purchased parasols to line the aisle. Aside from that I think that’s about it…Fiance and I bought a frame for our “guest book” and we’ll have a picture from our e-session in it. Ummm..what else? I think that’s it…I plan to make glitter heart garland, mr and mrs blocks, a seating chart, and mr and mrs chair banners. I’d also like to do something like “love is sweet” on the dessert/cake table. What about you? Any ideas? Fiance is being an a** lately and it’s annoying to talk to him about wedding stuff because he just doesn’t give me any input without then saying “you are going to do whatever you want anyway.” Grrrr. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Kelsikay:  I know the ones who have purchased plane flights will show up. The rest of the planning is going ok, I think I will spend the weekend chasing people down

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