(Closed) Ugh! Friend is showing others my dress!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Why not just say that you are excited that SHE is excited about it, but you’d rather wait and keep a little of the surprise for the wedding day. Plus I wouldn’t want too many people seeing me in my dress until it’s properly fitted. Just be honest with her. Maybe CALL her instead of a text since it’s really easy to misinterpret someone’s tone over text.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Phone her! Texts and emails can be misinterpreted.

Post # 5
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Just ask her not to show anyone else. Don’t be mean, don’t be firm. Just like “hey girl, we have to make sure my dress is a surprise to some people! Wink” If you guys are good friends, she’ll understand. 

Post # 6
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2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@zaakaawaa:  Just ask her politely not to show anyone else, you want it to be a surprise! No biggie.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@zaakaawaa:  I would just drop her a friendly email saying ‘hey! remember how I showed you my dress? Well, I’m trying to keep it a big surprise for everyone so please don’t share it!’ Or something along those lines. She will get the hint. 

Post # 8
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12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think as long as you ask her nicely, there shouldn’t be a problem!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Ya maybe she didnt even think about it before doing it!  I understand your upset, i would feel that too!!

i hope that its just an honest mistake

 

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