- 10 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
So last night Jason and I were out at his bar having a good time… (drink a little too much, him apparently more-so than me) Well we’re having a good time talking about my upcoming birthday and someone asks what I want, I jokingly (ok half jokingly) just hold up my left hand and wiggle my ring finger… He barely notices and someone pointed it out, we laugh about it, then get on the subject of his ex-wife’s ring… and selling it so he can get money for it instead of it just sitting in the safe (which he has said that the money he gets from it will go toward my ring) so I start smiling and getting excited, he says the money would go toward my ring (like we talked about) his friend made a comment like “awww!!”, then his drunk butt starts rambling on about how he would give me some of the money if I got him $10,000 for it and then the rest could go into his savings. Then he like has a little arguement with himself and is like “but maybe it will go toward your ring. but maybe it won’t… but. um” Then he pretty much says that he isn’t sure he wants to marry me yet, then smiles and gives me a big kiss (um… what?!)… Then I say I don’t care about a ring I just want to marry him, then he grabs a twist tie and jokingly asks me to marry him, then takes it back! (he doesn’t remember any of this by the way)
I called him out on it this morning saying he was mean, and he appologized then had this huge goofy grin on his face… So, I’m a little confused… I think he might have gotten self concious about his friend’s reaction to him getting me a ring so he back tracked… I mean, I know we aren’t THERE yet, but I mean, thats what her ring is for, he’s told me that many times… Just weird. Boys are so confusing. And WHAT was up with that grin this morning?!