(Closed) Ugh!!!! People are such jerks!!!!!!! So much venting.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2237 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’d bill them for the work I did then, to be quite honest.  Sounds rude, but they can’t expect to get something for nothing!

Post # 5
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

aw that really stinks! Why would someone do that?!


I hope you get it all figured out. Instead of them “helping out” with the rentals they should cover the rentals


Edit- i was going to suggest billing them too but i didnt know how well you know them.

Post # 6
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree with the PP, if you bartered design work for the rentals you need and you aren’t getting your end of the barter.. then they owe you. Period.

Post # 7
1080 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Bill them.

Post # 9
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh that is just not cool!  She must of been feeling this way for awhile now, why wouldn’t she have voiced her reservations then?  I do understand her point, but there is a way to figure that stuff out.  I think you guys should try to figure out a plan B as opposed to trying to sell them on the idea.  It sounds like it’ll be too much of a hassle to deal with them.  I’m so sorry you did all that work for them only to be shafted in the end 🙁

Post # 10
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That totally sucks. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I want you to call her and tell her she owes you $2,000 for the interior design work you did! Geez!! I can’t believe she waited this long to tell you!

Post # 12
1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ugh – that stinks! I’m frustrated for you!

They really should cover the cost of the rentals since they’ve left you high and dry. Either that, or you should bill them for your work.

What is wrong with people?!

Post # 13
342 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I agree with everyone else.  Seriously, she should hold up her end of the bargain, and if not, she owes you the money for all the work you did.

Post # 14
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

You should totally look into your back-up options and bill them for your services to them.  This was a TOTAL bait and switch and that is NOT ok!  I totally feel for you right now. 

Maybe have your Fiance contact them and get more info?  This is rediculous. 

Post # 15
532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think that you should call her and say that you understand her concerns about her dinnerware, and that becuase she isn’t able to loan it to you, you are going to be billing her for the work you did. Then, take the money she pays you and use it to rent your dinnerware. She can’t just use you like that. She has to pay you for your services if she isn’t going to hold up her end of the bargain.

Post # 16
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I whole heartedly agree with PP’s..Bill Her!  Regardless of how well you know her.  She did this to you, knowing full well what the agreement was.  If she’s not going to follow through on her half, then that’s absolutely fine.  She will be billed for your services.  end of discussion with her!

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