(Closed) Ugh!!!! People are such jerks!!!!!!! So much venting.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 78
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

that is human nature, when they need help they make all kinda promises but then dont keep them later. BILL THEM for the work you did. that is just fair

Post # 79
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Bee Keeper

umm…I was on your side for most of this…until she offered to uphold the bargain.  You can’t change your mind about the flatware and then still bill her for your services.  She offered her dinnerware as promised and you told her not to worry about it.  You still have the right to be pissed that she was originally a little shaky but billing her now?  Nuh uh.  That ain’t right.  BUT she should figure out a really nice $2k wedding present for you now.  Since that was going to be their present, they better have something AWESOME now.  (Prolly won’t happen though since you’re upset with her…)

Post # 80
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’m confused.  When did she offer to uphold the bargain?

Post # 81
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MightySapphire: I didn’t read where she agreed to uphold her end of the bargain. What I read was that she would “help” bakerella and her Fiance with rentals for their wedding….without specifying exactly what they “help” would be.

EDIT: and I had to add…b/c of how ridiculous the whole situation is. She graciously offered the “help” in lieu of getting them an actual GIFT for the wedding….LOL! All you can do is laugh, cry, or rage like a lunatic at situations like these.

Post # 83
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Update please!  Did you bill her?  How did she respond?

Post # 84
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71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I understand not wanting her to do the rentals herself because of the problems it might create, but I think it’s worth checking in with her to see if she meant she would just lend you guys the stuff that was originally promised. That was the deal, right?

Post # 86
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh-my sympathies. That sounds awful. Have a great wedding!

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