(Closed) ugh! shower hosting dilema

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I can understand your hurt feelings and from my experience as a Maid/Matron of Honor, I can say my mantra became “It’s not your wedding, just do whatever makes her happy”. Meaning, it’s not your decision and you sort of have to go along with whatever she wants. Personally I’ve never really heard of “naming the hosts” but who cares about a title? You’re still the Maid/Matron of Honor after all, and maybe she wanted a way to include the Moms more. Plus, if you back out don’t you think that will cause more hurt feelings between the two of you (which it sounds like you’ve already over come some hurt feelings in the past?)

I say, take a deep breath, put a smile on your face when you see everyone, do what the bride has asked (and above all be glad you don’t have to foot the ENTIRE bill for the party)

Good luck.

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