- 9 years ago
I have soo much to do! And my the future Mr. is not being helpful at all. In fact I was going over some ceremony details with him this morning and mentioned that his best man (who is supposed to be playing guitar for the ceremony) would probably not escort a bridesmaid down but just go down with him and my officient. To which he said "Mr. Best man is supposed to play guitar?" Ummm….HEEEELLLOOOO we discussed this over six months ago, and then again roughly 2 months ago- it was one of the few duties I assigned to you, which was to let your guys know what their roles would be and make sure they were okay with them! We have three weeks people! If Mr. Best man decides he doesn’t feel comfortable doing it- or at least not on such short notice I can’t really hold it against him. And then I get a pa. and my vision is not fullfilled. THe thing is I have been soo open to just about everything, not exactly the table cloth color I want- no biggie- it’ll do. No china like I had envisioned, just regular ol plates, no biggie, simple is good. Non matching bridesmaid dresses not quite the style I had hoped for, I just said they look great together. I made sure to tell him how important it was to me that we have live music, that I really want to walk down the isle to acoustic guitar, even if we just have an ipod and pa set up for the reception and he manages to forget it.
Granted- he just bought me a house- which I am insanely grateful for/excited about and I know that he was very preoccupied with all the to-do/ stress/ paperwork that went along with that- which is why I very very much limited what I was asking him to do for the wedding, but he can’t even do that ? ! I know he didn’t do it to hurt me, I know that he cares, and he has apologized profusely and promised he will make it right even if it means finding someone to hire, but I still can’t help being alittle dissapointed.
all this stuff is finally starting to get to me
I don’t car what kind of cake stands there are
what color the napkins are
how many people show up
what people think of the kit and kaboodle
if anyone dances or not
no one will remember any of that stuff anyway
I just want the few details I had requested,
the few I had stated were necessary for me to really have a great day
to be done….