(Closed) ughh bridesmaid problem!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

No I’d be pissed.  I would take her to coffee.  Remind her of the fact that this is the most important day of your life.  Gently ask her not to stress you anymore.  And if that’s something she doesn’t think she can do, tell her it’s ok if she decides to take herself out of the wedding.

Post # 5
308 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I totally understand… my Maid/Matron of Honor is similiar.  She’s getting married in Sept (and I’m Maid/Matron of Honor for her wedding) and uses that for an excuse for everything. ( I can’t pay for this b/c I hve my own wedding to worry about….)  She even stiffed the other BM’s for paying for my shower.  IDK, I know there’s more to the story- but I don’t even want to get into it with them…. 

I wanted to be the best Maid/Matron of Honor ever for her wedding despite planning/pulling off my own- I had it set in my mind that I wasn’t going to let MY wedding get in the way of helping her with her festivities… but it’s turned into a huge source of stress for me. I feel very unwelcomed in any of the planning- her other Bridesmaid or Best Man is having some sort of competition to be her BFF I guess… ugh.  Some people Never change!!!! So I’m basically checked out.  I hope that she doesn’t think I’m being flaky….  I’m just trying to stay sane!   

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