(Closed) Ughh… friend said "That's a lot of dress!"

posted 9 years ago in Dress
Post # 92
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

She asked to see your dress, and she responds with that? Pshh. It sucks that it’s only the negative comments that stick to us – like when people tell you how beautiful, funny, sweet and smart you are. Does that stick and boost your confidence? No. It’s the ones that say “you’re kind of blah” (or something) that bother you until the end of time. 

 

Your dress is beautiful and you look amazing in it. It’s YOU dress – she isn’t the one wearing it. When she gets married, she can buy whatever dress tickles her fancy. 

 

My coworker didn’t like my dress either (i could see it in her face when she saw the picture) but she said I looked beautiful. Not everyone has the same style – but everyone should be graceful in their responses. 

 

Post # 93
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

people like to give their opinions based on what they would do if it was their turn to try on dresses. well guess what? it’s not. it’s YOUR TIME! YOU LOOK GORGEOUS HONEY! And that’s not a lot of dress…that’s DRAMA! BRING THE DRAMA HONEY! YESSSS!!

Post # 94
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

I had some random walk by me while I was trying mine on and say the SAME THING. I’m all about big dresses!  Booya sister! 

Post # 95
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Your friend is a lunatic (and quite possibly jealous). That dress is simply DIVINE!!!!! Please don’t let one comment ruin you confidence in this dress as it’s just beautiful and looks stunning on you!!

Post # 96
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

It’s gorgeous! And I’ve said the same thing about my own dress, in a good way. It’s a lot of dress – and I’m a lot of gorgeous in it! You look lovely, so don’t worry about anyone else’s opinion. Just because it isn’t her style doesn’t mean it’s not perfect for you. 

Post # 97
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880 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@sleepyhead22:  do you love everything that girl ever wears? prob not! (and you prob don’t say wow that’d a lot of shoe or whatever either!!). you prbly wouldn’t like a wedding dress she chose either, cause you have dif taste. her taste doesn’t matter! there’s no dress 100% of ppl will love. who cares about that random person who doesn’t like it (and is rude enough to say something and dumb enough not to know her opinion means 0!!).

Post # 98
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Tell her to zip-it.. That dress is stunning!

Post # 100
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Bumble bee

uhh hell yes it’s a lot of dress – its your WEDDING!!! The one day in your whole life you can wear ” a lot of dress”. I love it and you look gorgeous in it!!!

Post # 101
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189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

She knows your dress is perfect.  She may just want your dress! 

Post # 102
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@sleepyhead22:  What is her problem? Maybe she’s jealous… That dress is gorgeous and not too much at all. I wouldn’t touch the tulle at all. It’s perfect and you look great in it πŸ™‚ Ignore her – like you said, she’s just a casual friend… her opinion doesn’t really matter. Actually, no one’s opinion but your own matters here.

Post # 103
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@sleepyhead22:  Is that the enzoani fatima??  I almost bought it…instead i opted for a very similar and cost effective dabra.

dont listen to her that dress is fabulous!!  when my bms saw me try it on and they all gasped and said it blew the mermaid dress i tried on previously out of the water!  i didnt even pick it out actually…my bms did.  they said it looked kinda big in the bag but whatever lets try it on anyway.  

i think the amount of tulle is what makes it a wow dress!

and stop showing pics of ur dress to other pple they’ll see it at the wedding!

Post # 104
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree with @dli you shouldn’t keep showing pictures to other people. You will look gorgeous!!! And the dress is a dream!

Post # 105
Hostess
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

People all have different opinions of what they like. That gown is absolutely incredible on you and is SO stunning! Personally I would not want that much dress on myself, but that is on me. On you? It’s PERFECT!

Post # 106
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 1993

Love this dress!  “Go big or go home”

is my motto!

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