(Closed) Ughh I know this is crazy!! Just need some reassurance

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
1444 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow, sounds like you are on the right track; you have accomplished A LOT!

Post # 5
614 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

You’ve accomplished a lot for your wedding being so far away! 

First thing is to just breathe. Relax. You’re already really ahead of the game and everything is going absolutely smoothly! You couldn’t ask for a better amount of time to be able to make everything as you want it without stressing so calm down hun! 

Just relax. You’re feeling a lot of pressure to have this amazing wedding because of your talents and gifts when in reality it’s going to be amazing because you and your FI are going to be committing to each other for the rest of your lives. You have plenty of time to make your decorations just as you want them and there won’t be a single person who doesn’t think they’re great – especially if they already think that of your other work.

I think you need to drink a nice glass of water (or hot chocolate if you’re in the mood for that lol) and get some sleep. You’ll feel better after a good night’s sleep. 🙂

Post # 6
7871 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@megs102:  17 months?? I had a 10 month engagement and got it all done easily. You are way ahead of most people. Relax, and sweet dreams 🙂

Post # 7
2127 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Baby #2 due Sep 2017

@megs102:  You’ve done more than me and I’m 11 months out!! I booked the venue last weekend and have taken e pics. That’s it 🙂

Don’t worryt, 17 months is a long time!!! Enjoy this time of your life 🙂


Post # 8
4107 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Relax! You have done heaps.


Not trying to invalidate your stress, but you know that in essence this is just a big party? 17 months to do the rest is HEAPS of time.


( I have a fake wedding date on here as I don’t want people I know IRL finding me, but I planned a kick ass awesome wedding in 12 mths, and I have anxiety issues too- just break it into bite sized chunks.)


Post # 9
1472 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@megs102:  girl, you’re crazy! You have about a year longer than I did and I had plenty of DIY stuff. You can’t/shouldn’t sustain this level of anxiety for 17 months, especially when hou have so much done! Breathe! 

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