(Closed) Ugh…I just yelled at my hubby :( pregnancy emotions suck!

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@CEtoSAHM:  I don’t have any helpful advice……… At almost 13 weeks I have already had 2 freakout moments. I was sweeping one day and for some reason came to the conclusion that no one cared what I do to keep the house clean all the time (super irrational thought) and I started sobbing when Darling Husband tried to talk to me I flipped out. I appologized and he said it was ok but he is not looking forward to dealing with my crazy emotional outbursts for another 27 weeks.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sorry – I usually yell at Fiance and I’m not even pregnant πŸ˜‰

Maybe just try to count to 10 before speaking when you feel you are getting angry?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

oh yesssssssss, my poor hubby has heard some f outbursts.  I feel terrible afterwards but he understnads its really stessfull and hard being pregnant and we have CRAZZZZZZZZZZZZZZY hormones.  dont beat yourself up about it, that just try to explain to him what your going through. honestly, i really think hormones are SO much stronger then we realize when were pregnant and sometimes anything can drive us crazy. lol.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Its bound to happen, I was a total cry baby and constantly on a emotional rollercoaster.

Just try to not take it out on him, when upset walk away until you can get yourself under control. And if you slip up be sure to apologize. πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@CEtoSAHM:  oh me too honey, tonight was rough. I was having a I feel like a cow, nothing looks awesome on me anymore, I feel like I cant do normal things anymore kinda day. I took it all out on him.  I can’t apologize right now either because he just shuts down when I act like that.  It’s not pretty.

I really dont have any advice for you other than to say you arent alone.  I am 26 weeks and I have my moments dispite trying not to.  

Hormones are something else.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010
 
ColeandAmyT :honestly, i think i lucked out with my hubby, he’s just a easy natured person where things dont faze him to much whne i get irrational/upset. honestly, i would just talk to your hubby and maybe even show him proof (haha this thread! or even medical articles) that show that its normal to have mood swings during pregancy  bc of hormones and maybe he would undertand its harder to control then just mind over matter. hormones are a beast!!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

@CEtoSAHM:  I do it all the time… hate myself for it later, but thankfully Darling Husband is a trooper about it. He does hold a bit of a grudge though. I was already a super emotional person BEFORE getting pregnant, so I’m literally HORRIBLE right now. Let us just make it through these next 17 weeks please!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I had issues in my first tri with uncontrollable rage. If anyone did anything to piss me off I would get so angry I just wanted to hit something. Darling Husband did something one day I was so angry I couldn’t speak. I screamed rage and out. He came back an hour later and I was fine.

It can also get bad post partum. My oldest child was annoying me so bad I threatened to throw him out of a moving car. He is a teenager so maybe he is just better at pushing those buttons. We laugh about it now, I swear I am not evil 24/7. Just remind him it will all be over soon and there will be new frustrations for both of you.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I feel sorry for my husband. I get angry so easily now, and not just a little irritated…irrational I want to throw shit against the wall red faced angry. I’m a monster.

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