(Closed) Ugh…the in-laws. Post your story!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@mspartridge:  My future in-laws are superly akward. When I am arround them they are nice and they seem to like me but they are still pretty odd people. For example my Future Mother-In-Law didnt come to SO 30th birthday which he celebrated in a nice restaurant with those near and dear…But nope, she said that she wanted to go on a holiday to a friend’s place instead (nothing was set in stone at this point and the invitiations were handed out WELL in advance). Turns out that she returned from her holiday TWO days BEFORE SOs birthday but still didnt bother coming. SO was fairly upset and I was really angry at her for hurting his feelings like that. 

It gets better! She is now celebrating her birthday in some chalet but didnt give much notice in advance. We have already made plans for said weekend which cannot be cancelled. Going to her short-notice birthday involves travelling and she wants SO to be there. Actually, she said he is expected to go to his mothers short-notice birthday weekend! Best thing? She send an email to everyone of her children plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends to invite them BUT me! So apparently I am NOT invited. SO says it must have been a mistake in her part. Oh yeah… Sure! 🙁

Anyway, SO is a dutyful son and will go visit her on the Sunday of her birthday Weekend for a couple of hours. There is not much I can say but I think it is unfair! I even offered to take her out for Dinner for her birthday instead but nope… SO wouldnt be comfortable letting her down. As a side note, it’s not an “round” birthday like a 30th one, just an usual one. 

Thanks for giving me a chance to vent! 🙂

 

 

Post # 4
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916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mspartridge:  lol I feel like I’ve talked too much about this topic on other threads already.

Mother-In-Law is almost definitely suffering from borderline personality disorder. I’ve had some traumatic times from being around her and of course my husband has seen some her at pretty disturbing moments as well, sometimes it feels like she enjoys mentally torturing others or making them think they’re the crazy ones instead of her. The one thing I do like about her though is that she would cook for me once in a while, which is something my mom has never done for me because she doesn’t know how to cook. H and I both want Mother-In-Law to be happy, but she always finds something to be miserable about, and usually she takes it out on family.

Father-In-Law is okay, met him twice. Only this is he has a drinking problem and when Mother-In-Law pushes his buttons he can go from a zero to a ten emotionally. Then again she affects a lot of people that way.

Post # 5
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2433 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

@alaha:  lol, it sounds like your Mother-In-Law is identical to mine. Boo to the double standards — she’s never there for his events, but expects us to drop everything to attend hers. 

Post # 6
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257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@MrsEdamame:  It’s so, so annoying and it makes me increadibly mad… Not because of me but because of SO. He deserves better! But hey, for her grandaughter she will drop everything in a heartbeat! I really dislike her double-standards!

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