(Closed) Um, you’re not invited … awkward!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow so awkward!  Is this someone that you will interact with much?  If not, I would just ignore that comment.

Post # 5
1347 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Eesh, that is awkward. I would leave it up to the groomsman’s wife or the groomsman. Maybe she won’t even remember/bring it up again and it will just blow over. Or if it does come up again, maybe the groomsman’s wife can gently say it’s a small party and “blame” your Maid/Matron of Honor for keeping a tight leash on the guest list or something.

If it was just any other outing I would maybe say be friendly and just let her come, but it’s your bachelorette! It should be fun and with close friends that you actually want to spend time with.

Post # 6
4 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I wouldn’t just let it blow over.  Never assume!  I would make sure she knows that she is not invited.  As mean as that sounds, it’s better to get it over with rather than have it be awkward in front of everyone.

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