Post # 17
I can understand the $$$$$$ Issues about her inviting someone ya rarely know
If she comes stag, she will have to put up with "Its sucha shame you broke up with so and so….we were looking forward to your beautiful wedding like Jheartas" then you;ll have a cousin on meltdown crisis and losing it in the bathroom during YOUR DAY!
I suggest let it go and let her bring her friend as a guest, since ya said she could bring a date. sometimes a gal needs someone stronger at her side when the dumbass questions come up at family mbrs wedding and those questions are fueled by family mbrs that have been drinking!
Let it go, I would
Post # 18
Did you address the original invitation to her and the former Fiance or did you address it to her "and guest"? If you addressed it and guest you are stuck as that suggest she can bring whomever she wants. If it was former Fiance then you have the right to say that you did not invite her with guet but in vited her and former Fiance. Therefore does not necessarily translate.
On the other hand while I know $200 is a lot of money, you were willing to allow her to bring a man whom may be a first or second date or jsut a friend. What is the difference if that friend is a girl? If anything it gives the single guys another person to dance with, girls will always dance even if there isn’t a guy to dance with,not so with guys, your other guests may have more fun because of the additional nonrelative female.