Post # 1
ok so. bees…u guys are amazing. :):):) i love u all! hehe but not my Future Sister-In-Law
SHE IS A TOTAL BITCH. i hate her. she is the root of all the problems in my life. lj;asdhfwoiehfjhefjhwjehfjkhsdofiuowiejhflkjhdfwekjfljdfkjkj;lksjdgfiwr.
when Tummy proposed…we both wanted to do a very simple elopement. but NOOOOO…his sister insisted we have a huge italian wedding and because we are nice people and want to make everyone happy. we agreed (after she threw a tantrum)
so the wedding planning was going GREAT! i even asked if she would be my Maid/Matron of Honor. even though i didnt want her to…i thought it would be a nice gesture. especially since i knew she wanted to stand up.
here is how she is a b
1) she went behind tummy and mine back…went to our venue for our reception and changed the time. wewanted a day reception. she wanted a nighttime one. lakhsdfijhadf gah!
2) she cancelled our bridal shower and bachlareet party (her reasoning?…oh..its a good one..thts number 3)
3) she told the entire family im a ho. and tht im cheating on Tummy. and that i have no upbringing. bla bla bla…for MONTHS! and Tummy and i had no stinkin clue untill the other day where his family told him not to mary me otherwise they will disown him.
oh and then she has the nerve to tell me in front of the entire family that she feels betrayed and can not stand up anymore in the wedding.
what do we do?… we stick together and go back to our orignial plans of doing a simple elopement thingie of just us 2.
guess who wants to be there…standing up. aodhfeuhfoehflnef
and guess who is throwing the biggesttantrum in her life because Tummy told her no because she hasnt apologized or anything and is continuing to talk trash.
what do i do?!
Post # 3
That’s tough – sorry 🙁 I say you just do the elopement. That way, no one can hold anything over your head. If she still thinks you should have a wedding, she can plan all of the details of your reception AFTER you get back 🙂
Post # 4
I second the elopement, don’t tell her details, just go do what’s right for you and Tummy.
Post # 5
I’m utterly confused as to why you let your FSIl run the show.
Do what you want. If you want to elope, elope! If you want a big wedding have that, but plan it yourself.
And get rid of her being in your wedding.
Latly, what’s your Fiance say about all this, hope he’s standing up for you.
Post # 6
What the…??? I’m almost at a loss for words here! Why is she doing this to you and her brother? Her BROTHER! Does she hate him?
Go through with the big wedding and cut her out of it. That’s the spiteful me talking. The mature me would say elope quietly and celebrate with family and friends when you return.
Post # 7
I can’t believe you would let her dictate anything, no wonder she is throwing a hissy fit now!!!
I would elope, and tell him family its their fault for believing her, and for letting her act that way
Post # 8
Why should the woman even be invited to your wedding (much less running the show) after the things she’s said? I don’t get why you guys were bowing to her wishes in the first place? It’s not her wedding.
Post # 9
i know. i regret ever tring to be nice. it pisses me off. thanks u guys! im totally gonna just elope with him. thtats what we wanted :):)…
should we allow her to come with to the court house? she furious that we dont want her there..but i feel like its so hypocritical for her to be there. why should she try to celebrate a relationship she tried to destry…right?
Post # 10
@Atalanta: omg..hes so standing up for me like crazy. its hard for him to tho u know?…we should just move to california… sigh…i love the beach lol. so much better then dealing with drama
Post # 11
The people who attend a wedding are supposed to be supprting the marriage.
Why you would want this woman at your wedding is beyond me.
Post # 12
@tulipandtummy: I don’t think you should allow her to go to the courthouse with you… especially after the way she behaved. If she was trying to bring down your relationship I don’t think she has any business being there to celebrate one of the most important events in the relationship.
Post # 13
“should we allow her to come with to the court house? she furious that we dont want her there..but i feel like its so hypocritical for her to be there. why should she try to celebrate a relationship she tried to destry…right?“
Let her be “furious”! I dont know why you would still be debating anything, after what she has said about you, and turning his family against you. So, no, do not let her have ANY involvement, or details period, from here on out. Go with your original plans.
Post # 14
I’m sorry but this is your day, its amazing that she went this far. She has no right to be there with you and I think you would have a better day if she was excluded.
Post # 15
congrats on going through with the elopement…it sounds like that’s what your two really want and that’s all that matters. I agree, do not give her the details! It’s your moment.
Post # 16
I dont get how she is able to change the time of your reception? Personally I would just not tell her any information. If you still want to elope then do so, I dont see why she can throw a a tantrum and get her way when its your wedding.