(Closed) umm…because ur a total b*#@h!

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
306 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

That’s tough – sorry 🙁  I say you just do the elopement.  That way, no one can hold anything over your head.  If she still thinks you should have a wedding, she  can plan all of the details of your reception AFTER you get back 🙂 

Post # 4
1958 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I second the elopement, don’t tell her details, just go do what’s right for you and Tummy.

Post # 5
3423 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m utterly confused as to why you let your FSIl run the show. 

Do what you want.  If you want to elope, elope!  If you want a big wedding have that, but plan it yourself.

And get rid of her being in your wedding.

Latly, what’s your Fiance say about all this, hope he’s standing up for you.

Post # 6
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

What the…??? I’m almost at a loss for words here! Why is she doing this to you and her brother? Her BROTHER! Does she hate him?

Go through with the big wedding and cut her out of it. That’s the spiteful me talking. The mature me would say elope quietly and celebrate with family and friends when you return.


Post # 7
4590 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I can’t believe you would let her dictate anything, no wonder she is throwing a hissy fit now!!!

I would elope, and tell him family its their fault for believing her, and for letting her act that way

Post # 8
2593 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Atalanta: THIS!!

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@tulipandtummy: Why should the woman even be invited to your wedding (much less running the show) after the things she’s said? I don’t get why you guys were bowing to her wishes in the first place? It’s not her wedding.

Post # 11
30399 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The people who attend a wedding are supposed to be supprting the marriage.

Why you would want this woman at your wedding is beyond me.

Post # 12
1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@tulipandtummy:  I don’t think you should allow her to go to the courthouse with you… especially after the way she behaved.  If she was trying to bring down your relationship I don’t think she has any business being there to celebrate one of the most important events in the relationship.

Post # 13
27 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

“should we allow her to come with to the court house? she furious that we dont want her there..but i feel like its so hypocritical for her to be there. why should she try to celebrate a relationship she tried to destry…right?

Let her be “furious”! I dont know why you would still be debating anything, after what she has said about you, and turning his family against you. So, no, do not let her have ANY involvement, or details period, from here on out. Go with your original plans.

Post # 14
632 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m sorry but this is your day, its amazing that she went this far. She has no right to be there with you and I think you would have a better day if she was excluded. 

Post # 15
1675 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

congrats on going through with the elopement…it sounds like that’s what your two really want and that’s all that matters. I agree, do not give her the details! It’s your moment.

Post # 16
5166 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I dont get how she is able to change the time of your reception? Personally I would just  not tell her any information. If you still want to elope then do so, I dont see why she can throw a a tantrum and get her way when its your wedding.

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