(Closed) umm..why thank you…

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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520 posts
Busy bee

She’s catty.  She sounds like a witch who is treating you like a child.  Kill her with kindness….  

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Geez, I think getting your thank-you cards out in under a week is an accomplishment!  🙂

Post # 5
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965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

wow. what a jerk. lol. send your thank yous on your own time.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

This is astoundingly rude to me.  I would just send them in your own time.  Seriously, my mouth dropped open reading this.

ETA: the calling after bothers me less than her having your guests address their own envelopes so you “have no excuse.”  That’s the part that floors me.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

She needs to calm down. It hasn’t even been a whole week.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Wow, that sounds super rude to me! You do have a life, you know, that doesn’t revolve around sending out THANK YOU CARDS!!!!

 

That’s crazy!

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

She’s insane.  I’d purposely wait to mail hers 😉

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper

I’d also tell her she’s rude for making guests fill out addresses…. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow – out of line! I hate the whole ‘write your addresses’ thing.  It is presumptuous (that everyone would even bring a gift) and it’s as if you wouldn’t do it unless half the work was already done for you. Send your FAIL (very appropriate in this case) her card now and get the rest out within the week and stop picking up her calls or deflect to Fiance.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Your FAIL sounds a kinda crazy to me.  At least she isn’t your Future Mother-In-Law.  🙂

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

That’s insane.  I feel like getting the notes out within a week is better than 99% of people.  I’d stop taking her calls for a while.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say she has no daughters of her own. Amirite?

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

i doubt she means to be mean or catty…  i think its nice of her to throw u the surprise party and while it is a bit irritating for her to be pushy i dont think she deserves to be called rude and catty just because she wants u to send out the thank-yous right away.. IN the end it reflects well on you the sooner u can get them out and not on her. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

She might just be trying to be helpful.  I know when I get excited about things my actions sometimes come off as nagging.  Hopefully she’s just happy and helpful and really is not trying to be rude.

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