(Closed) um…my boyfriend confessed he has been telling everybody that i’m his fiance!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

That’s certianly a reverse of the usual order of things but, hey, it definitely shows promise!

I think I’d bring it up again and say, ‘ya know, before people start asking me when’s the date, shouldn’t you ask me, first?’ and see where it goes from there. Just keep it light-hearted.

Enjoy your cocktail!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Haha that is too funny! He better propose soon before he gets everyone very confused, lol.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Haha, I’d tell him to man up and make it happen!

Post # 6
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Helper bee

LOL cute story 🙂

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I read this and while I thought it was sweet, I do not understand why would he be telling everyone you are engaged when he hasn’t proposed.

Surely that would make things awkward when you do get engaged and people will think you already are?

Oh well, I guess this is his way of building up to asking, congrats!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

My SO does this too, with ppl I haven’t met, like the ppl at his new job. No idea why, but ok.LOL

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Not to be debbie downer, but just be careful how you move forward with this info if you actually want a proposal. And he should also understand how difficult this will make your day to day life if he doesn’t actually propose soon. People will be hounding YOU and not him about wedding details and demanding to see a ring. It will be cute at first, then you’re going to start to resent him for putting you in that situation.

But if you don’t need a proposal – congrats! STart planning your wedding!

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