(Closed) Um……you are not my father…. (insert slight toddler tantrum here)

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 17
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86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

it is a blessing.  just continue to remember that you are marrying the man you love. end of story.  honestly, the rest is just fluff.  🙂

Post # 18
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520 posts
Busy bee

Nope, you are not overreacting AT ALL!!  You are grown.  You are paying for everything without financial assistance from your mom.  And he’s NEW ~ he just got there.  No, sorry.  He may be a nice guy, but he is out of line. 

Do things your way.  Certainly he will be invited, but that’s the extent of it. 

Good luck!  

Post # 19
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53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I agree with you Aubergold. I wouldn’t like it if my soon to be step dad started giving his two cents of an opinion either if he wasn’t asked. If your mother wants to lay back and let him be the man of her house, then that’s fine. But he shouldn’t get it twisted, that does not make him the man of your house.

I think you should just tell him nicely, “look dude, I appreciate your opinion, but FH and I are going to do this our way.”

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