(Closed) Unbachelorette party suggestions?

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
293 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I think unbachelorette party makes the most sense and I would get a fabulous cake–maybe one with only you on top?  And Champagne to toast your single-ness.  I dont know if this would make sense with what you have planned but maybe before or after..ANYWAY if it were me, I would want to have a sort of pajama party, do all the things you wont do as a married woman, play Mystery Date or Twister or Truth or Dare or rent Little Darlings  You could also ask every one of your friends to write you a profile for eharmony or something-even if only as a fun thing to read and keep.  I would not select maid of dishonor, because it is unfortunate but not really dishonour…I would embrace the fact that…better now than later on down the line.  Take a lot of pictures and consider maybe making it the theme of whatever was in style when you were in Jr High.  You could also write secret notes to boys or whatever you did before you ever dated a single boy.  Depending which way you are going–you could make invitations of a picture of you and your ex-torn in half.  Send yourself some flowers on your would have been wedding day.  I know you didnt ask for this advice but dont be too hard on yourself if you are upset that day–the groom isnt the only fun part of a wedding!  So its ok to mourn the party, etc.  


Glad you have moved on!  Bravo to you 

Post # 5
71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

 not really a "to-do" item..but karaoke!!! 🙂 there have got to be some good "single girl" songs! flirt up a storm!


and ya know, i went through this SAME thing last June…it’s good to keep your friends around to help you not get all bummed out and sad.


maybe if you want to do the "funny titles" make sashes, Maid of Dishonor, Bride Not to Be…dunno what else you could come up with. Just an idea.

Post # 6
375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

So many great ideas already! I think you could definitely do some of the things at your party that are done at bachelorette parties. One great game I have seen is "That Guy Bingo". You basically have bingo cards with types of guys (the jock, the mullet, etc.) and try to find and take a picture with each one. The first to complete the card wins. It also might be fun to make some sort of fun sashes (Single and Fabulous, Maid/Matron of Honor To-Be, etc. to draw attention to your flirty posse and to score free drinks) 🙂 It also might be fun to make some sort of T-shirts for your party. It’s up to you what you want them to say. Good luck and have fun! I love that you are doing this and celebrating yourself!

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