- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
So my Uncle is the rudest person alive. He makse rude comments and has said racist/religious comments about muslim people (my fiance is muslim) He only comes to family functions if the person hosting is serving “good food” which is food to his liking, and has alcohol for him to drink and once he eats he will rudely move to the couch to watch tv and/or take a nap. He never says hi to me when I come to family functions and ignores my fiance completely.
My cousin his daughter is also rude..she is a chip off the old block as they say and just has verbal diarrhea..saying whatever comes to her mind. She asked me if I was pregnant when I got engaged and she came to my engagement party and proceeded to get stupidly drunk and bad mouth me at my own party! She was engaged before me and has been for a number or years. Her fiance is a exact replica or her father and didnt come to our engagement party because he didnt think there would be any “good food” left for him by the time he got there..wtf? Lets just say I havn’t talked to her since.
My problem is that I really dont want to invite my Uncle or my cousin and her fiance to my pre-wedding dinner we are having here. We are not having a reception just a dinner before the actual wedding because actual wedding is in Cuba (cousin and uncle are not coming there for financial reasons). There will be no alcohol because fiance’s family is muslim. I’m afraid if my uncle comes all he will do is complain about the food and lack of alcohol and who knows what racist things might come out of his mouth there. I also dont want my cousin there as we havnt talked since July and she will probably just come there and be sour that she isnt getting married anytime soon. I feel bad for my aunt because she has to put up with these two but I just dont want the embarassment on my day regardless of whether they are family or not. My Mom doesnt see where I’m coming from at all and all she does is defend them..I’m so worried about this..what should I do?