(Closed) Underdressed grooms?

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 16
611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

It doesn’t bother me at all. I think it just shows the couple’s personality. I just think if you don’t like it, don’t do it at your wedding but if the people getting married are happy with it then that’s all that matters

Post # 17
1039 posts
Bumble bee

I think the level of formality should be somewhat uniform across the board. We had an outdoor wedding so a tux would have looked a bit silly, so he went with a grey suit and I had a strapless lace gow. Similarly, our Groomsmen didn’t wear tuxes so the BMs wore cocktail dresses instead of gowns.

Post # 18
238 posts
Helper bee

Hmm, speaking as  a woman who always looks like she’s going to a slightly more  formal place than  her partner  – an  inveterate teeshirt and jeans wearer  – mostly  I don’t mind . But not at our wedding, severely underdressed looks too much like not  caring   .Might not mean that, but don’t want it looking as if it does ! And that  goes for ‘designer stubble’ too, which I personally detest..

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by  sema4dogz. Reason: forgot a bit

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