Men are actually can be pretty open with their feelings… IF YOU KNOW what to look for. As women we are way more verbal than they are. They use fewer words. So you have to be able to read them (body language) and what they do and don’t say.
Doesn’t sound like this guy is as fond of you as you are of him.
If he was truly over the moon about you, he would have used words to say that (when a guy says something… listen, they don’t usually mix words when they are open to expressing their feelings). Otherwise you have to read what they don’t say… if he hasn’t said anything, it is most likely that he doesn’t have feelings for you, but doesn’t want to hurt you by saying so (guys hate nothing more than seeing a girl cry for example… it makes them very very uncomfortable… they will DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING TO AVOID THAT)
Also from my experience, sometimes the Bad Boys (player boys) use the silent gap to their advantage. They
ll let you put it all out there, in hopes that they might get lucky. They wont actually speak up (and loudly so) when they
ve had their fill... and want you to go.<br /><br />This inevitably leaves us poor gals shell-shocked wondering what WE DID WRONG, and how come the whole thing didnt work out as we thought it would (visualized)
Honestly, what we did wrong, was we misread them. But I agree it can be really frustrating when they don
t say much to begin with.<br /><br />Ive found that the 3 best books ever written about how to make sense of guys and this whole Dating world are
s *Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus*<br /><br />Greg Behrendts *He
s Just Not That Into You*<br /><br />(there is a great chapter entitled, Hes Just Not That Into You… If He
s Not Calling You / Dating You)<br /><br />and<br /><br />Dr Phils *Love Smart – Find The One You Want / Fix the One You Got*
The first two will tell you a lot about how men tick, and *He
s Just Not That Into You* and Dr Phils *Love Smart* will help you to see what doesn
t work when it comes to men and WHY... once you figure out YOUR LIFE PLAN then knowing which guys out there are potential mates is a lot easier. And a lot less heart-breaking overall.<br /><br />I read all of these books Post Divorce, and soon found I was attracting a better quality of guy... and although they were "substantially different" from any guys Id dated in the past (I liked Bad Boys) these guys who I otherwise wouldn`t have ever taken a second look at, were a lot more compatible with me and my needs. Result I am getting married again, when I never thought this would happen again… and I am super happy… to be with a guy who is sooo MY SOUL MATE. He treats me like a princess, and our relationship is sooo easy because there is no drama…. we are just so intune with each other (and its been almost 7 years of bliss). I cannot wait to marry him later this year.
Hope this helps,
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