- 10 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Since you have the room, I would say go ahead, invite him, be the bigger person. If you didn’t, I would stick to your guns–don’t care if they are “engaged” or not. If she is old enough to be engaged and enter into a life long commitment, she is old enough to call you and explain the situation.
Since you do have the space…why not just invite him and avoid any further drama? At the end of the day it isn’t worth the hurt feelings and the stress.
If she’s supposed to support your marriage, you need to support hers.
Just invite him, take a deep breath and leave this behind you. It will be a distant memory in a few months. Enjoy the last days of planning.
Invitehim – you would want your husband there and it would keep family peace.
Thanks for everyones’ thoughts! I believe they are making their engagement “offical” next week when my cousin’s father gets back in town (so the future-fiance can ask permission), and I will call to congratulate and say bring him along…only because we have enough space and I’ve got enough wedding stuff to worry about right now! ;p
Is it really worth the fight? It’s not like she’s asking you to let him into the wedding party! 🙂 I’d say invite him, avoid the drama and enjoy your wedding.
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