(Closed) Uninvited Guest…

posted 9 years ago in Family
  • poll: What should I do about the uninvited guest?
    Invite cousins fiance : (47 votes)
    78 %
    Don't invite him : (7 votes)
    12 %
    Wait to get a response card and see what happens : (6 votes)
    10 %
    Other (Please Add in comments :)) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 17
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    2161 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Invite him.

    Post # 18
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    1701 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Since you have the room, I would say go ahead, invite him, be the bigger person.  If you didn’t, I would stick to your guns–don’t care if they are “engaged” or not.  If she is old enough to be engaged and enter into a life long commitment, she is old enough to call you and explain the situation.

    Post # 19
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    553 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Since you do have the space…why not just invite him and avoid any further drama? At the end of the day it isn’t worth the hurt feelings and the stress.

    Post # 20
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    1077 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    If she’s supposed to support your marriage, you need to support hers.

    Post # 21
    Member
    125 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Just invite him, take a deep breath and leave this behind you. It will be a distant memory in a few months. Enjoy the last days of planning.

    Post # 22
    Member
    553 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Invitehim – you would want your husband there and it would keep family peace.

    Post # 23
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    2260 posts
    Buzzing bee

    you should do what

    View original reply
    @Cmt83: stated, I think you should invite your cousin and her Fiance. He could be a very nice guy for all you know, and especially considering he will be family soon, why start off on such a sour note, be welcoming 🙂

    Post # 25
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    103 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Is it really worth the fight? It’s not like she’s asking you to let him into the wedding party! 🙂 I’d say invite him, avoid the drama and enjoy your wedding.

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