(Closed) Univited friends finding out about shower from others

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I don’t have this kind of situation yet, but I am sure I will when the time comes for my shower and wedding.  Sorry you’re going through this =/

Post # 5
244 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

can you have a second shower, or maybe even just a brunch that you can invite them to? maybe if you politely explained that you thought that they would be uncomfortable at the shower, and then invited them to dinner or maybe to a special wedding related event like cake tasting or something like that?

Good luck!

Post # 7
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@marylandgirl: Can you just invite them late, and explain why you didn’t initially? If it wouldn’t cause a scene, I would invite them both anyway — uncomfortable or not.

Post # 8
713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh – so sorry you’re dealing with this! Maybe take the ladies out for drinks as a fun “non-shower”. Honestly, my bridal shower was the worst, most stressful part of the wedding. Hope things get better for your wedding day!

Post # 9
7311 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

As the bride, it is generally not your role to do the inviting. A shower is thrown for you by someone else. That “someone else” is responsible for deciding who to invite (or not). So my advice is to stay out of it and let the shower host do the explaining.

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