(Closed) Unofficially waiting?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1213 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@NightOwl27:  Personally I don’t see the point in continuing a relationship if you don’t see it leading to whatever you want in the future. If you both want marriage in the future it would make sense that you see it going somewhere. I wouldn’t put any pressure on him or anything, but I also wouldn’t say there is anything wrong with having confidence/hope that this relationship is going to be the one and result in marriage!

Also, it’s always nice to hear your SO say wonderful things and remind you he sees a future with you! Congrats! 🙂

Post # 4
109 posts
Blushing bee

@NightOwl27:  Congrats! You are unofficially waiting. He was very vocal with you about his interest to spend the rest of his life with you. This is wonderful for you. You are on the righttrack with not psyching yourself out as things do definitely change. Just try to not be a prying bee. Be happy with where you relationship is. It doesn’t seem like a long wait for you. Just kinda wished he told you in person. 

Post # 5
183 posts
Blushing bee

eeek congrats girl you are deff officially waiting. I know how exciting it must feel to find someone you feel you are on the same page with. Good luck!

Post # 6
1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Yay! How lovely, try and enjoy this (sometimes difficult, always exciting) waiting time in your life

Post # 7
36 posts

NightOwl27:  Am I the only one that feels like every guy should do this? He told her to make sure she knows where he wants this to go. You are both adults and should both know what the other wants for the furture. I’ve never been one to sit around waiting on someone else. Luckily I didnt have to wait long. It sounds like you have a great guy. 

Post # 8
509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

NightOwl27:  I hear ya girl!!! I knew by the 2nd date with my guy that he was the one for me. By the time we got engaged (like 3 weeks ago) we had been dating for 9 months. But we had been talking about marriage about 5 months into the relationship. I am older too and it was def. a “When you know … you know” deal. This site will get you through those waiting days. TRY TRY TRY not to get impatient. And keep it all in perspective…. you will have the REST of your life together so don’t rush him… which it sounds like you are not going to do. 

CONGRATS! Dont you just LOVE the IN LOVE feeling? 

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