(Closed) Unpierced ears, what to do?

posted 8 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
1347 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I actually had pierced ears when I got married, but due to keyloids my holes closed up and formed scar tissue after I married. I may have had pierced ears for a total of 18 months of my life. I’m 31.

Anyway, ear rings are so NOT apart of my life. Embrace what you can wear- necklaces and bracelets. Or go for it. Get your ears pierced at least 8 weeks before your big day and have fun with the new accessory.

Post # 5
107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@mademoisellesacha:  i have pierced ears and i bought 2 pairs of clip on earrings as possible wedding earrings…  i had an easier time finding pretty clip ons than pretty earrings for pierced ears

Post # 6
728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My ears are not pierced, so I didn’t have anything in my ears on my wedding day.  I had my hair in a “half-up half down” do so my hair was kind of falling behind my ears, and I don’t think earrings would have added to my look.  But then I’m not really an accessories kind of girl, and wanted to keep it simple for my wedding anyways.

Post # 7
3968 posts
Honey bee

@mademoisellesacha:  I faced the same issue and ended up getting them pierced 10 months before the wedding.  They took a LONG time to heal (longer than expected) and took some getting used to, but I love that I had them pierced.  Clip earrings have always been painful for me to wear and I’m glad I don’t have to deal with it!  My only hesitation in having you pierce them now is you are cutting it close with 4 months to the wedding.


Post # 8
1049 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t pierce them now and then try to wear heavy earrings on your wedding day.

I would go with clip ons or screw ins. Magnetics fall out more easily.

Post # 9
392 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@mademoisellesacha:  If this is the first time you’ve contemplated piercing your ears, and you don’t see yourself wearing earrings often after the wedding, I wouldn’t go to the fuss (and I say that as someone with multiple ear and body piercings!).

But if you DO decide to do it, please don’t go to Claire’s/Piercing Pagoda/any establishment that uses a piercing gun. Guns can’t be autoclaved (so there’s the possibility of disease transmission). They also use a not-that-sharp earring to literally crush through the tissue, like piercing with a thumbtack. They don’t heal as well, it hurts more, and they’re operated by people who are not professional piercers and may or may not place the piercing properly or have good sterile technique.

Go to a real piercer at a piercing or tattoo studio who will use a piercing needle, sterile technique, autoclaved equipment, and  who does this for a living. It will be lower risk, hurt MUCH less (an ear piercing with a needle is MUCH less painful than one with a piercing gun- it’s the difference between a sharp needle with good techinque and a dull one with brute force), and you’ll be likely to get better positioning and heal faster (less trauma to the tissue to heal).

Post # 10
867 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I was in the same position. I got my ears pierced when I was 10, and I left them out for a day a little too early in the healing process and they closed right up (kids heal so fast!). I had some scar tissue there and so I never got them repierced. All through high school and college, literally no one noticed- I can’t tell you how many gifts of beautiful earrings I’ve gotten, even from people who knew me for years!

Last September, I had a job interview and wore my hair in a bun. For the first time in forever, I looked at myself in the mirror and really wished my ears were pierced so I could wear some pearl studs. So, I looked up piercing studios on yelp and took a friend to a well reviewed one to get them done!

It honestly barely hurt, because at a piercing studio they use a needle and not a gun (ouch!). The aftercare is a little annoying, but not hard- you just have to make sure you keep them really clean.

I’m glad I did it, because I’m going to wear my hair up at my wedding and I know the pearl drops I picked out will look beautiful, especially with my dark hair. And it is so fun buying earrings on Etsy now (I just love jewelry!). 

Honestly, I wouldn’t recommend the magnetic earrings- they hurt. If you think you will enjoy being able to wear earrings after the wedding, then go for it. If you don’t think you’ll care, then just get a fabulous necklace to wear instead!

Post # 11
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2022 - Greece

@mademoisellesachaI think you should only pierce your ears if that’s what you want for the rest of your life.  Don’t do it for just one day if it’s not your thing. Also, if you plan on wearing long earrings (chandelier) they tend to get heavy as the day goes on.  I would suggest that you get the earrings you want and have them “converted” (can buy a kit cheap) to a clip-on style.

 My mother had  my ears pierced when I was 5yrs old at the doctor’s office,  and got my daughters done when she was 10 months old – but she decided not to wear earrings for several years and now she loves them, but I don’t allow her to wear anything long or heavy so her holes don’t get streched.

Post # 12
2292 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Maybe wear a pretty/sparkly hair piece with no earrings. Like this:

Post # 13
6 posts

You can get special clips from Claire’s where you put in normal earrings and fold the sticky-outy-post thing (yes that is the technical term) over, thus converting normal ones to clip ons

Post # 14
2683 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mademoisellesacha:  I wouldn’t trust magnetic earings. They just seem really unstable for me. 

Really, getting your ears pierced is no big deal and they do heal really quickly. But if you don’t want to, then don’t. If it’s never been an issue to you now, I don’t know that it’s worthwhile just to do for your wedding day. 

I would suggest getting some twist in backs or the clip kind. I think both of those are more likely to stay on rather than magnetic. 

Here’s what I mean:

Clip on

Twist on:

Post # 15
4044 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@mademoisellesacha:  I had an issue with my ears getting infected the first time I pierced them (I was young.. maybe 11/12?) so I let them close up. At prom, I remember being so upset by this! I found gold hoops that had almost a spring loaded type deal that were fine! Maybe search an option like that? 

I got my ears repierced in college and now they’re fine. I would suggest going to get them pierced and going with a stud for your wedding day. I second going to a real piercing parlor – and ask them if you can change them a bit earlier than healing time for the big day. Just make sure there are ALWAYS earrings in your ears so they dont close up! 

Post # 16
2060 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.LemonDrop:  +1 to clip on earrings vs. manetic

However, I love my ear piercings. You could always take your earrings out when you go horse back riding and have to wear a helmet.

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