(Closed) Unreasonable prenup?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 106
645 posts
Busy bee

Lady, you have balls of steel.  Well done.

Post # 107
1128 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You are amazing. I read the whole post and update just today otherwise I would have commented before. Thank goodness you found out about him before you were engaged/married – he did you a favour showing those true colours early! I’m sure it hurts now but wow I’m so glad you got away before you got deeper! Hugs!

Post # 108
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011



Im glad you walked away, he was a total dick! You deserve someone as awesome as you!

Post # 109
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Okay whoah, I’m editing my post because I just read your update! GOOD FOR YOU! I’m so happy you were strong enough to walk away! Good luck to you strong woman!!!

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  gbonello.
Post # 110
312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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dedelovely:  you are one bad-ass tough cookie.  Good for you for standing up for yourself and your worth as a partner amd companion.  You will make a much kinder man a very happy husband one day.  

Post # 111
4697 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yikes! Good for your for walking away.. What a terrible man.

Post # 112
415 posts
Helper bee

You are a woman with a backbone who stands up for herself and believes she deserves to be treated with respect. That is an incredibly sexy quality. Someday, some lucky guy out there will see that quality in you, and he will move heaven and earth to make you his wife.

This rat was not The One. He was a mirage. You dodged a bullet!

Post # 113
764 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

You are a badass! I am sorry it came to this, but you did the right thing Bee! 

Post # 114
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Think of this prenup as a blessing in disguise. Get rid of him. Now there’s a prenup that sounds better already! 

You won’t be able to live with him knowing that he initially wanted this even if he changes the prenup now. It was unfair from the start. 

Post # 115
337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

”I told him he lost his greatest asset-me”

I am giving you the loudest,longest slow clap ever for this line!!!!! And i hope other bees that arent being fairly treated by their other halves,in whatever capacity,read that line and know their self worth as you do

Good luck to you

Post # 116
228 posts
Helper bee

A big hug to you; you are a fantastic woman and you handled this situation exceptionally well.  Your now ex needs some 1×1 counselling for sure, he lectures you on taking the emotion out of situations but is himself emotionally clinging to his break up with his first wife.  He tells you not to over analyse yet has anslysed every aspect of the prenup to make sure there is no wiggle room. Is he a narcissist? You sound like a great catch with your career, education, home and pensions sorted, someone will see you for the wonderful woman you are and you won’t look back.  Best of luck.

Post # 117
274 posts
Helper bee

Wow! I didn’t expect the update to go that way. Good for you. Some day you will look back on this and realize what a bullet you just dogdged. Your courage will pay off in the long run.

Post # 118
14 posts

So happy to hear that you walked! Was following your post for an update!

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