(Closed) Unreasonable prenup?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 121
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Good for you for sticking to your guns and protecting your own rights in the relationship.  It’s his loss.

Post # 122
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1338 posts
Bumble bee

Good Job!

Post # 123
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1887 posts
Buzzing bee

Wow, I don’t know you bee, but I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. I didn’t expect him to be so stubborn, to be honest–his entitlement is stunning! Good for you for dodging a bullet. There is better and brighter out there for you!

Post # 124
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686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Any guy who ever tells you that you’re being “too emotional” can go fuck himself. He’s not the judge and jury on how which emotions and emotional intensities are appropriate. They are your emotions. How many of them are you entitled to? ALL OF THEM. End of discussion. 

Post # 125
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3109 posts
Sugar bee

Never marry a man who call you, or insinuates that he might think of you as a b**ch.  The same if he says it about women in general.

Post # 126
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379 posts
Helper bee

I’ve read both your original post and your update. What a wonderful woman you are. Yes, he’s probably making you pay the price of his previous failed marriage. Let him think it over. If he loves you, he will call you back, apologize profusely and discuss a compromise. Otherwise, you did the right thing. Kudos for your strength.

Post # 127
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295 posts
Helper bee

I am so happy to see your update. I just opened this thread today and when I got to the page with your update, my blood was BOILING. I was so ready to walk up one side of you and down the next with advice, but then I got to the part where you clearly showed you need no advice. Good for you, don’t take no sh!t like that from anyone, ever. 

Post # 128
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

You are amazing! You have such strength to be able to stand up for yourself

Post # 129
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Bumble bee

Wow. Wanting to sign away all your rights and remove you from his will as he pleases if you don’t do as you’re told = highly controlling and potentially abusive. 

Sounds like he wants a live in doll at his beck and call. arsehole.

You are amazingly strong! So glad you showed him that you’re better than that. 

Post # 130
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5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Wow, you are an amazing woman. I know it must not feel that way right now. It’s tough when the man you love turns out to not be the man you thought he was. But once you come through the pain, you’ll be better and stronger. And the man you do end up with will be so lucky to have you!!

Post # 131
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1017 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Omg you are amazing!!!!!!! I am so proud you stood up for yourself, he sounds CRAZY! He needs some sort of therapy but his response make me think that maybe his ex wife wasn’t so crazy and that it was in fact him. Good job, he does NOT deserve an awesome woman like you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Post # 132
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558 posts
Busy bee

I second what you’ve said. Couldnt have said it better!

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Post # 133
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Busy bee

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dedelovely:  this sucks, but I must say, there are very little women like you in this world, you stood up for yourself and grew the balls he never had to care more for you. So you got all of our respect, and deep inside You know you deserve hundres of times better and it will come in due time. Good luck!

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Post # 134
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Blushing bee

Dear OP, how are you holding up? Will you let us know how you are doing? Hugs!

Post # 135
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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dedelovely:  Yes, as above you’ve got the thoughts of your fellow bees. I hope you’re keeping as well as can be expected. Thinking of you. You’d better be taking care of yourself!

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