(Closed) Unreasonable prenup?

• loudsilence99
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: November 2014

Good for you for sticking to your guns and protecting your own rights in the relationship.  It’s his loss.

• HoneysHoney
• 5 years ago

Good Job!

• peridot456
• 5 years ago

Wow, I don’t know you bee, but I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. I didn’t expect him to be so stubborn, to be honest–his entitlement is stunning! Good for you for dodging a bullet. There is better and brighter out there for you!

• silkybutterbee
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: September 2017

Any guy who ever tells you that you’re being “too emotional” can go fuck himself. He’s not the judge and jury on how which emotions and emotional intensities are appropriate. They are your emotions. How many of them are you entitled to? ALL OF THEM. End of discussion. 

• Supersleuth
• 5 years ago

Never marry a man who call you, or insinuates that he might think of you as a b**ch.  The same if he says it about women in general.

• framarianna
• 5 years ago

I’ve read both your original post and your update. What a wonderful woman you are. Yes, he’s probably making you pay the price of his previous failed marriage. Let him think it over. If he loves you, he will call you back, apologize profusely and discuss a compromise. Otherwise, you did the right thing. Kudos for your strength.

• sunshinelove007
• 5 years ago

I am so happy to see your update. I just opened this thread today and when I got to the page with your update, my blood was BOILING. I was so ready to walk up one side of you and down the next with advice, but then I got to the part where you clearly showed you need no advice. Good for you, don’t take no sh!t like that from anyone, ever. 

• CanadianBride456
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: August 2014

You are amazing! You have such strength to be able to stand up for yourself

• DaisyBlossom
• 5 years ago

Wow. Wanting to sign away all your rights and remove you from his will as he pleases if you don’t do as you’re told = highly controlling and potentially abusive. 

Sounds like he wants a live in doll at his beck and call. arsehole.

You are amazingly strong! So glad you showed him that you’re better than that. 

• KoiKove
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: October 2010

Wow, you are an amazing woman. I know it must not feel that way right now. It’s tough when the man you love turns out to not be the man you thought he was. But once you come through the pain, you’ll be better and stronger. And the man you do end up with will be so lucky to have you!!

• MangoBreezy
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: October 2015

Omg you are amazing!!!!!!! I am so proud you stood up for yourself, he sounds CRAZY! He needs some sort of therapy but his response make me think that maybe his ex wife wasn’t so crazy and that it was in fact him. Good job, he does NOT deserve an awesome woman like you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

• MrsLerca2be
• 5 years ago

I second what you’ve said. Couldnt have said it better!

• MrsLerca2be
• 5 years ago

• This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  MrsLerca2be.

• isabeelle
• 5 years ago

Dear OP, how are you holding up? Will you let us know how you are doing? Hugs!

• howdoyoudo
• 5 years ago

• Wedding: July 2015