(Closed) Unresponsive bridesmaid

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
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188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

My Maid/Matron of Honor also was so frustrated with a bridesmaid. I hate that she had to go through it alone, because she didn’t want to come to me with all this bridesmaid drama. I wish that she had. I no longer speak to this girl anymore. And she is in all of my wedding photos. I hate that..it makes me so sad. I am so disappointed in her. I only just found out about this recently, but the girl also completely stiffed my sister with the bridal shower cost. So my sister was forced to pay for her portion too. And the worst part, I never got to address it with the girl. (there was sooo many other lies and other things that I never got to address) Hopefully I will some day. It needs to be said. Like you said before, you understand that people are busy, but I would never ever ever have treated my friend the way that she has treated me. Blowing off your friend’s sister is such a crappy thing to do. Good riddance. I am so glad I am no longer friends with this girl. But it’s still a sore subject for me. And I absolutely think that it means that she doesn’t care. Wouldn’t you be there for your friend, if you cared?

Post # 17
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453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

summerbride0815:   Dang, this stinks!.  I have the same situation.  I have 2 MOHs.  The 1 Maid/Matron of Honor is WAY more involved in planning and the other one could care less.  The difference in my situation is that I involved myself by inquiring about how everyone was working together.  I come to find out the 1 Maid/Matron of Honor has gone well above and beyond anything I would have ever expected or asked for.  And the other one is being a brat, not responding and having the 1 Maid/Matron of Honor pay for everything.  My issue is I hate that she is taking advantage and just not doing a damn thing

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