(Closed) Unsupportive guests

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I agree that is a hard situation to be in but I think you can attend in support of your sister-in-law without supporting the marriage itself.  I’m sure you and your Darling Husband only want your SIL to be happy in her life.  Obviously something about this guy (who, I agree, sounds horrid) makes her happy.

Basically I’d try to keep the mentality that even though you don’t agree with the choice/marriage/man you want your SIL to be happy and if this makes her happy you’ll be there to see it through.  You may then also have to be there if this marriage blows up in her face and she needs the suport of family.

Plus – with as many weddings now-a-days that leave out the “speak now or forever hold your peace”, you won’t have to feel like a hypocrite for not speaking!

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