(Closed) Unsure how to continue with husband

posted 10 months ago in Married Life
Post # 167
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Yep, having divorced parents would be sooo much worse for this kid than having married parents where his/her dad is gone 5 days a week and his/her mom is fucking some other married guy with kids. 🙄

Post # 168
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898 posts
Busy bee

zebra10 :  what kind of business venture is he trying to get into that requires 5 years of training?  How is this even real?

Post # 169
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I honestly dont believe you make the money you say you do…  theres no way you are this thick and clueless in personal life and your marriage and what being a parent is and manage to do a total 180 during the day and pull 300k salary a year out of your ass.

Can’t imagine a career that this would make any sense in ..

Fake news.

Post # 170
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

zebra10 :  Oh please, when did you feel the same way? I’ve been with my now. D.H over 7 years and I couldn’t love him more. We support each other’s careers. We’ve been TTC since 2016 and have thoroughly discussed our future with or without kids. We love spending time with each other and I’ve never once thought I’ve settled. 

He doesn’t think your career is important and isn’t that bothered about the baby that will arrive this year. I feel so sad for your unborn baby and I don’t think I’ve ever said that to anyone before. 

Post # 173
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Busy bee

zebra10 :  what industry has a 5 year training course? I have never heard of such a thing. 

Post # 174
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Bumble bee

So basically, your husband expects you to leave a lucrative career to follow him to a city where he will make…no money? And he will support you and the baby how? Is he an idiot?

Post # 175
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

He’s in his early 30s right? He’s never earned money and you and his parents have supported him. What a catch.

Post # 176
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Bumble bee

I’m having a really hard time with this. The OP says she went through a lot of school to get a career where she makes like 300k, so I’m thinking medicine…but it doesn’t seem like medicine? And then she says her husband is trying for the same career, but it doesn’t seem like he actually cares about it because he’s too busy with pipe dreams. Then he needs to do this 5 year training in another city on top of that so he can make a career out of that training instead of what he is in grad school to do, but that training is going to help with this mysterious job too? I REALLY don’t get it. I mean, I need to know what this career is because I can tell you that if it employs people who make such stupid decisions I could be totally great at this. 

Post # 177
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Bumble bee

Honestly it just sounds like your husband doesn’t want to work. This just sort of sounds like an excuse to stay in school. 

Post # 178
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898 posts
Busy bee

strawberrysakura :  that’s what I’m wondering too because I’d love to make $300k working only half the month. Sounds awesome 👏 

Post # 179
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I would like to see a link to this training program stat otherwise this is just fake.

Post # 180
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

And works like 2 days a week. Hmm anatheanalyst :  

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