- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
I’m going to agree with the general concensus, don’t send out anything.
Your parents feel obligated to invite everyone, and they will also probably feel obligated to let everyone know that it will be small and intimate due to budget.
Also, I think once the pictures come back, and there’s only 10 people in them, it will also help to stop any hurt feelings.
Starting a marriage in serious debt in order to stop people’s feelings from being hurt will be a rocky start.. and financial problems ruin marriages every day. It’s not worth it if there’s no marriage there by the time you pay it off! 🙂
Good luck! And even if they are hurt, time heals all wounds and they will eventually understand, and it will be okay.