Post # 1
We received an invitiation that included myself and my husband. The response requested date is today but I don’t know if I will be able to attend although my husband will for sure. Should I include myself for the meal count not???
Post # 3
I would call or email the bride directly and let her know that you are unsure and ask her what her deadline is for someone to change their RSVP. For the time being, she can mark you as yes and then you know by what point she needs to submit final numbers to her caterer/venue/etc., so you don’t mess anything up for her on that end.
Post # 4
@mpramirez: When is the wedding? When will you be able to know for sure by? When did you get the invite?