(Closed) Unthanked friendor and guests of good friend’s wedding

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

I don’t think you are overreacting.  I would be a little ticked myself.  I would however, be the better person and forget about the whole thing.  Weddings do some weird stuff to brides and I think she lost her head a bit.  Forgive her and invite your friend to wedding.  Show her what a gracious bride looks like.

Post # 4
62 posts
Worker bee

Regarding the save the date/invitation/travel planning for Out of Town guests, I would give her some leeway. Mailed Save-The-Date Cards are not a requirement and her email was the STD. While it is poor hosting skills not to provide any travel info, perhaps she was too busy with other details and felt that guests would be able to make their own arrangements.

As for the videography, you have a right to be miffed at her lack of appreciation.

Is she really that good a friend? Any good friend of mine would love to hear all the details of how I got engaged and vice versa. It sounds like this friendship is a little lopsided. I would try to reconnect with her, just for the sake of friendship, and gently ask if she’s viewed the video. Hope it works out!

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